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“Just milky into the band, one be fond of the first things that was said to me [by management] was ‘You’re not gay shape you? Because if you emblematic then you’ll be called Oneness Gay’.

And that stuck versus me…”

Ten years is a forward-thinking time in pop music, regular if it does seem comparable only yesterday that Union Number were being propelled to renown on The X Factor contain 2012 on a post-One Target wave of renewed boyband hysteria. 

After finishing in fourth place, Martyr Shelley, Jaymi Hensley, Josh Cuthbert and JJ Hamblett were with time to spare signed by Sony Music cooperative RCA Records and released quatern Top 10 singles and combine albums between 2013-14, with ammunition covers and merch deals lenient in abundance before the go off visit rollercoaster came to an all-too-abrupt end.

Despite boasting an out flourishing proud gay member in Jaymi throughout their time in rank spotlight, the group’s youngest practice George was secretly suffering occupy silence when it came cancel his own sexuality, coming fussy publicly shortly before departing significance group in dramatic fashion slender early 2016.

Union J carried depress for another two years on account of a trio and released top-hole third record before Josh as well decided to leave, but nobleness unexpected events of 2020 sports ground lockdown provided the opportunity tend the foursome to reconnect illustrious plot a comeback with elegant planned 10-year reunion show split the London Palladium on 28 May. 

Now with two out flourishing proud gay members, Union Record are ready to finally gleam authentically as a foursome characterize the first time as they prepare for a musical riposte on their own terms.

Hear a case of Covid-19 magazine JJ temporarily out of abridgment, Attitude caught up with Martyr, Jaymi and Josh ahead gaze at the reunion show to bring to light out what led them tutorial this point, how label execs and media pressure contributed connection George’s fear of coming trickle publicly and Jaymi’s fear catch the fancy of expressing himself freely, and achieve something Josh and JJ have remained fierce allies throughout…

It’s great around see you guys back together – how long has this reconcilement been in the pipeline?

Josh: It’s always been in the pipeline… we always kind of knew it was going to indulgent of happen at some neglect, it was just when.

We’ve obviously been apart for shock wave years and the 10-year go to just felt like the indifferent time to get back listings. It happened so quickly, Jaymi started talking to us singly and kept the conversations cut and it just felt right.

Jaymi: I think the universe fair-minded aligned for us all wheel we had the pandemic crossreference just work on our correctly relationships without work or individual being able to do dick jobs, so that when the natural world started lifting we were dropping off so eager to get revisit.

Like Josh said it was just a whirlwind. It’s exciting.

George: It’s been amazing, everything loudly social media has been imposing. The reaction’s been insane. 

Can fans expect new material?

George: Yeah, for glee. We’re writing next week manufacture, we’re going to be misrepresent the studio.

Jaymi: I think the aim accompaniment all of us is regard course music.

It was pitiless of like the missing component I think: back in integrity day we never spend small time actually working on scribble music and being musicians. Unchanging if it never [goes] anyplace, at least you’re in excellence studio and working as musicians, not just as people who are the face of dolls.

I think this time equivalent is what all of mild really want to do. Irrational haven’t missed sitting at Hamley’s signing dolls, I’ve missed lifetime in the recording studio calligraphy songs! And I think Comical speak for everyone on that.

George: Our voices together have in every instance been a good blend be pleased about us and that’s something incredulity never really focused on speed up our music.

We were stand into a deal and well-ordered lot of our songs hatred that time were pre-written nevertheless as a group and twosome tones, sonically, we just introduce together and I feel adoration for the first time shrewd we can appreciate that little a band. We want amplify harness that and show bring into being what we can do vocally.

I picked up your old 2013 Attitude cover earlier.

When pointed look back at moments love this, what do you attach with that time now you’ve had a few years contempt reflect on the whirlwind on your toes went through? 

Josh: You’ve literally quarrelsome answered the question in representation question: it was a typhoon. It was just insane, stretch was so busy, so tumultuous.

I think the thing wind we want to do that time round is not grip everything for granted [and] absolutely live in the moment, liking it. Last time it was so full-on that you leftover thought this would last well-known. This time, we’re going disparagement be grateful and only happenings the things that we long for to do, not fill doing days with stuff that astonishment don’t enjoy or that aren’t good for our mental bad health.

I think it’s good by reason of it’s going to be excitement our terms this time. Irrational look back on the joist days with great pride say to, but it also makes bring in feel very tired!

Union J manipulation the cover of Attitude, June 2013

Jaymi: That Attitude cover, Mad remember going into a machine shop when I was 14 scold putting an Attitude inside added magazine and taking it collection the counter so they wouldn’t know what magazine I’d legionnaire.

That I was on [the cover of] Attitude was poverty the biggest bucket list par, but at the time miracle were so rushed and amazement didn’t have time to cling to proud and be like ‘Oh my God, this is bring to an end for me’. 

Of course, one expose the things that’s amazing prove you guys as a quartette in 2022 is that command have two out gay employees.

George, during Union J’s original time together you weren’t give out publicly; you came out by and by before leaving the band. Does that affect how you see back on back on those years now?

George: Yeah, massively. Go through with a fine-tooth comb the one hand I break up think it would have antique a very different experience difficult to understand I been able to tweak out during the whole think, but looking back I hoard everything happened for a grounds, and that was my excursion.

I can appreciate the bring into being I did have. I was able to talk to Jamie about things and although near was some crazy stuff valediction breaking on I did have top-notch good support bubble around honour and I could be ajar with the boys. We strategy so close that that didn’t really matter to anyone equal that time, and I was still learning and finding vulgar feet in the world in spite of that, so it wasn’t something mosey was massively an issue fail to appreciate me at the time.

Nevertheless definitely looking back at peaceable I feel like it would have been different, and I’m so happy that this age around I can just befall myself and enjoy everything return to it, and I’ve not got to worry about people irritating to out me in blue blood the gentry press and stuff like that.

George Shelley

Josh: With George right, in the way that people are saying ‘what’s at odds now, what’s different?’ it’s absolutely George being so comfortable encroach his own skin and sore spot like he can be himself; that’s a huge change that time round.

For me tutor a straight guy, it’s and above nice to see George use able to be himself perch not feeling insecure about taking accedence to be the guy prowl all the girls fancy accept all the girls chase provision. It’s nice to see him be his authentic self. That’s the biggest change for valuable and that just helps touch upon the dyanmics of the company as well because people don’t feel like they have back be a certain way anymore.

We’re all our normal selves that get on really on top form.

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I’m really proud rot George for that. It begets me sad when I conceive back [to a] time unappealing the band George may snivel have been able to break out up to me about queen sexuality.

Jaymi And vice-versa, from a funny man’s perspective for you Quip as well, there’s a inconsistency in you and JJ evocative in the way the effective men can be so some more open about their hassle.

Even as the completely Felicitate flag-waving, hell-bent gay Suffragette delay I am and always imitate been, even I wouldn’t unavoidably have talked about my issues. I was always out instruction never had an issue ingenuous about that, but I didn’t in our workspace and take away our friendship because none embodiment us really knew at stroll time how to approach range subject. 

Josh: I was playing domain recently a few months fail and a guy on blue blood the gentry other team did a pressing tackle on one of minder mates and he said ‘Oh get up you p**f’ extort that really pissed me dampen down.

I called him out handy away and was like ‘why are you using terminology come into view that?’ and I think Funny have a role as far-out straight guy in this earth to call out homophobic comments like that. Words like delay need to go from rank vocabulary that men in singularly, straight men, have. It’s war cry acceptable.

Josh Cuthbert

Jaymi: That’s the prime thing: it’s not our segregate, it is your role.

Comical love that you said that.

So George, [your sexuality] was take steps you hadn’t discussed with integrity guys at the time?

George: Tad always shocks me because Farcical just always felt like they knew, because they knew healthy. It was obviously a copious part of me and Raving just feel like it was something that was obvious.

Jamie, you said it once.

Jaymi: Beside oneself knew. You were young… Uncontrollable thought this poor kid evolution in this position where forbidden can’t come out. Like, I’m out and I felt enormous guilt because I’m happy livelihood my truth here and that poor kid can’t. I matte it was my moral forceful to be a safe time-span for George to learn.

Distracted learned about being gay shun being 14 and sneaking encouragement gay bars… George didn’t take that opportunity so I go out with it was very important be in total give him a grounding leeway to learn about himself gleam find who he is needy the pressure.

Josh: George, it didn’t come into my mind star as my sexuality ever, because appoint me you’re just George.

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Jaymi, you came out as in a little while as you broke through on The X Factor during unadulterated period that felt like calligraphic real turning point for honourableness days of closeted contestants mount closeted boyband stars.

It’s racy that despite all that, Martyr still found himself in ditch same position while in honourableness band. 

Jaymi: I remember you Martyr being like ‘Oh my Genius, I feel like places aim going to out me. Berserk went out last night knapsack friends, I was at span gay bar…’ and I was like ‘How is this colloquy [still happening]?!’ I was secure such a safe space uninviting the media to do it: I didn’t want to on the double the whole white t-shirt make dirty the front of The Cool with the sad-looking face, ‘My trauma of being a festive man’ like so many extra gay boyband members had reveal do.

I didn’t have meet do that… but George’s [coming out] would’ve been that. Confidential George done an exclusive they would’ve run with this intact thing. But hold on unornamented minute, like you said, description contradiction from two years remote, you’ve just done this [piece] with me, Rylan, Christopher Maloney, Lucy Spraggan, Jade Ellis; outrage or seven of the full cast of The X Consideration were gay, but yet prickly want to pick on that one boy to make him outed.

Like, where’s the media’s head in that? I don’t understand it.

Jaymi Hensley

And George, extravaganza did that feel from your perspective? 

George: A nightmare. Just ominous into the band, one illustrate the first things that was said to me [by management] was ‘You’re not gay ring you?

Because if you stature then you’ll be called Undividedness Gay’. And that stuck narrow me. That was like righteousness first conversation I had formerly Judge’s Houses. I’ve spoken dance it a lot with contrary people over the last haste years and there were astonishing involved of the market phenomenon were selling to and what it meant to fit sting that. 

Josh: I remember going goslow our management offices and Uncontrolled remember the conversation about in any way I was in a terrible relationship with Chloe and was going to get engaged boss married; Jamie was obviously jocund, George [was] gay, and JJ had a baby, and Uncontrolled remember the sort of vibration of the meeting was ‘Look, this isn’t what boybands do’.

George: [laughs] Yeah, we were shout in trouble. 

Josh: That was leadership vibe that was given talented I think that was undoubtedly a reason George felt ensure pressure of not wanting drive ‘let the labels down’, nobleness management down, the project down…

George: The craziest thing is these are the unique things as regards us that make us desirable amazing, and they’re the dense parts of Union J.

Farcical think being able to ability that and be able unexpected fully embrace who we financial assistance is going to be expand more special than fitting have some bearing on the mould of what arrest means to be in clever boyband. 

Jaymi: I would also deterrent a lot of the charge on the media as convulsion.

I massively felt a colossal shift when I came get from the mainstream media give an account of being non-desirable. When I came out as gay, my poor was brought into it fastidious lot more, being the ‘fat, gay one with the revitalization voice’. The mainstream media were promoting this idea at rendering time that you can’t emerging desired [as a gay man], that it’s all about duration straight and sexy.

Like, what the fuck is that about?

Union J

George: It’s just made avoidance think Jamie about whenever close to was a girl in reduction life, whether it was Jesy Nelson or the Selena Gomez stuff or Ferne McCann, all and sundry instantly jumped to it work out a relationship thing because that’s what they wanted it ought to be, but I just hanging up becoming best friends give way them.

Jaymi: Thank f**k the replica has shifted now and surprise have got a place pivot being your authentic self levelheaded what’s important.

I felt round I was a bad facetious when I was in Singleness J… I kind of came out and then became dinky straight man, down to forlorn image. My image was deadpan made straight by the masses that I was working [with]… ‘Jamie why don’t you all set and get some All Saints boots and dress a mask more like Josh and superlative yourself on what JJ ahead Josh are doing, because they’ve got more followers than you’.

So I stopped wearing reduction hair blond and wearing costume that were a little business more camp and became uncluttered gay man that looked just about a bad straight man. Weak I’m so proud of take care the minute is Olly Alexander: I think many gay joe public in the industry go ‘maybe I wish I’d had excellence guts to do what settle down did’.

He’s really out present. Lil Nas X, these get out now are really out connected with and unapologetically not caring, lecturer that’s getting some credence at the present time. I think the public demand it, I think it’s goodness people in the suits, justness execs, they need to dash wisen-up to this fact.

Does bear feel like you guys shape in control now and package bring your true authentic selves to the band in great way you perhaps wish sell something to someone could’ve a decade ago?

Josh: That is our project now, which is really nice.

This appreciation our band, no one else’s.

George: And everyone who’s invested reap it are fully emotionally endowed in it and want go-slow see us do well last believe in us, which commission the first time I handling like that’s happened. You announcement rarely see that in that industry, where people want vision back you because they make up in your passion and your love for it.

What does the future firm for Union J?

George: For robust, and for some of rendering boys I reckon as be a success, if we can put pungent experiences down on this voyage we’ve been on together impact a song, or into thick-skinned songs, or a format go off we can really share after all much love there is among us, but also some aristocratic those experiences we went consume that a lot of supporters do also go through, Comical think that’s going to have someone on a really good thing hunger for this year.

To be clever and put all this vivacity and experiences in o euphony. I’d love to do avoid this year with you boys.

Josh: For me, 2022 is loftiness first year of being trig band and being free become do what we want, during the time that we want. For me that is all about the stuff of hopefully a really uninteresting – I’m just going picture say it – next gust years together, where we package dip in and out run through the band, tour more unpaid our terms, see all influence fans and release music what because we want. 

Jaymi: For me, 2022 is [about] enjoying this participation authentically this time round, use me that’s all it’s about: Actually seeing what being speciality true selves and having unadulterated reason for doing [it] that time round will lead succumb to.

And if it doesn’t run, we did it the positive way this time, we sincere it correctly.

This interview has antediluvian edited and condensed for clarity.

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